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Mumbai is an
active city. Everybody is occupied – more so the bread winners
who work harder, longer and under greater stress burdened with
time-bound assignments. One has to stretch oneself more leading
to strain too. Under such circumstances one tends to lose one's
cool and slightest added inconvenience provokes one to react
angrily.
During office work too, each person expects good coordination,
cooperation and sharing the work too – but the reality is
otherwise. Each person busy in doing his own tasks feels any
other work would delay his work so would avoid coordination,
cooperation and sharing, upsetting the other person who looks
for help. So the peace around is at stake allowing conflict to
surface. Some people accept the situation and do their best to
avoid conflict and do additional bit of work too. How to avoid
all this and bring spirit of performance with joy rather than
“bear till you tear” approach? |
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At home too, the
members of family could share each other's work thus bringing
greater bonding and closeness instead of just living together
under one roof as boarders.
Life is a journey. Let's make it pleasant, peaceful and joyous by
accepting people and situations as they come and be a part of the
team while changing where there is scope and having patience with
relaxed mind to accept changes when they are beyond one's own
control. Thus one can be at peace with oneself without
unnecessarily tormenting oneself.
Let's always remember these words of wisdom – “God, give me the
strength to change the things I can and the courage to accept what
I cannot and wisdom to distinguish between the two.” This will
help us to stay cool and happy too while helping others to be so
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